InCrow’s Feet: Life As We AgebyMargie Hord de MendezEating Alone AgainWe went from eating as a couple to doing so as three hungry people, to four, then gradually back to two as the kids flew the nest. As many…Nov 2, 202310Nov 2, 202310
InKoinoniabyMargie Hord de MendezThe House of MourningWhat’s good about funerals?Apr 23, 20242Apr 23, 20242
InGrowing GriefbyMargie Hord de MendezFinding Happiness after Grief and Loss of PurposeReflections on the Movie A Man Called OttoMay 3, 20245May 3, 20245
InFaith HackingbyMargie Hord de MendezFrom Mourning to the Morning Light“O death, where is thy victory? O death, where is thy sting?” These words came to mind as the sun and wind caressed me there in the…Apr 25, 2018Apr 25, 2018
InGrowing GriefbyMargie Hord de MendezPermission to DiePlease Tell Us How Long We Have!May 26, 20211May 26, 20211
Margie Hord de MendezMarch 21st, 2020: Why Didn’t You Let Me Know?But thanks for the lessons from lockdownMar 19, 20223Mar 19, 20223
InTell Your StorybyMargie Hord de MendezA Widow’s Walk in COVID TimesThe alarm sounds and drags me up to turn it off. I try to resist the temptation to check my messages, as they are sure to postpone my walk…Jun 30, 20224Jun 30, 20224
InGrowing GriefbyMargie Hord de MendezHeading SeawardA story of anticipatory griefNov 9, 20222Nov 9, 20222
Margie Hord de MendezGone but Still PresentYou’ve lost a loved one: a parent, a spouse, a child. A huge hole seems to have been gouged out in your heart. Their absence is…Aug 4, 2019Aug 4, 2019
Margie Hord de MendezLo prometido es deuda: Aniversario número 40… sin él“Nuestro amor imposible” (como escribo en otra parte) siempre se logró, y el 14 de febrero de 1981 nos casamos. Antes de que cumpliéramos…Feb 15, 2021Feb 15, 2021
Margie Hord de MendezPerhaps He Realized He Was Leaving Me SoonMaybe he realized he was leaving me soon. Maybe he suffered more pain than he let on, or more desperation as he tried to breathe. Maybe he…Jun 28, 20214Jun 28, 20214